Family and systemic constellation is a revolutionary healing process that will help you to “Stop generating suffering NOW”
Stop hurting yourself and others.
Most of our wounds originates within the family system.
From a Family constellation perspective, we are interconnected by a non-verbal field: a knowing field that connected us to one and another and is the intelligence that moves everything existing.
If we really want to heal and live our life fully , We can not run away from our past.
We have to face the truth as it is and follow life movement with trust.
The first stones of our life foundation are a man and women: our parents.
We exist because our parents and their ancestors lived before us.
We are the prolongation of their life.
The ties that binds us to our family members can never be broken, even if we live far away from them, we don’t see them anymore or even if they are dead.
Our parents are our life foundation.
Denying our parents or our origins as well as assuming responsibilities that don’t belong to us creates more suffering.
Unresolved family issues are at the root of most of our difficulties.
Our family history across generations (secrets, painful events, repressed emotions, unresolved issues) weighs upon our lives without always being conscious of it.
A family is a system as well as a business or an organization.
As in any system, unspoken laws and influences are operating in the family system.
Family & systemic constellation method is a powerful process that reveals the active forces operating at the energy field of our family and the ways in which they affect our life – impact of tragic, painful or unfair events. Identification of blockages, hidden dynamics or entanglements allows us to find effective and long lasting solutions so repetitive painful family patterns can be broken.
This innovative approach based on Bert Hellinger work (worldwide known psychotherapist from German) differ from most therapeutic methods in a way that it considers the individual’s issue in the context of a whole family system dynamic –rather solely as a separate entity issue.
When someone is not in his rightful place, is not respected, is treated unfairly, is undergoing some tragic events or difficult experiences, it affects the whole family system with repercussions often passing through several generations.
Children are very receptive and their ties to their biological parents are very strong and indestructible. They are especially prone to take on their parents’ or other people’s suffering in an attempt to be loved, re-establish a balance, to remain faithful to the family clan or one excluded member. Unfortunately this doesn’t help but rather perpetuates more problems.
Nothing is lost in a family, nothing can remain hidden away.
Usually someone in the family system takes in unconsciously burdens that don’t belong to him to his own detriment in an unconscious attempt to ease suffering or re-establish a balance within his family. He may take on the fate or the behavior of some else (failure, inclination to die, illness, depression, alcoholism, anxiety, guilt, anger, etc…).
The family constellation process allows us to break family patterns of suffering.
Each person can live his/her own life fully without carrying some burdens that are not his/her own, take total responsibility of her/his own life and remain in his/her right place within his/her family.
By taking care of our issues in relation to our family history we free ourselves from what doesn’t belong to us and is preventing us from fully living our life. We avoid passing the destructive family patterns and heavy burdens onto our children.
It is an act of love for one self, for our family and for life that requires a strong will, courage, maturity and a deep sense of responsibility.
This approach if for those who strongly want to say”yes” to life.
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